As I look at the photo that I just recently made my desktop, I am yet again in awe of the wonderful family that I have been blessed with. Yeah, we have our problems and arguments. We are just like any other family. But through it all, and no matter what, we love each other. Sure Mr O and Peaches will come crying to Handsome or I over something that the other did (or did not) do. Yes, they are normal siblings. But what I really love about these two kiddos is that when it is all said and done, they still are best buds. They literally have to have each other to survive. When one is sick, the other is worried and helping as much as they can by reading, pretending, and entertaining. When Mr O was in school last year and Peaches was home just with mom for so many hours a day, the time seemed to hang for her. I would read and play games and just in general spend time with her, but it wasn't the same. She needed Mr O. And on the flip side of that, he needs her. When Peaches and I were gone for a few days, time seemed to hang for him as well. Games and fun were to be had (Handsome is a great dad), but really, they are best buds and need each other. It was a little funny to me the first time someone asked me how old my twins were (back when Mr O and Peaches were 3 1/2 and 2 respectively). Now I am used to the question, but it really does ring fairly true to the way my children act together. They have the drag and knock out fights, that much is true. But mostly they are happy to be together, playing, pretending, and just being. Together. Mr O treats Peaches as much like a lady as a boy in 1st grade knows how. On the flip side Peaches has helped Mr O with the ability to sit for any length of time. Nice words are usually used between the two. Arguments do happen, but they are solved fairly quickly and everyone goes back to normal.
For clarification I do not want to give anyone the false impression that I have beautifully behaved children every single second of the day. They are normal in that respect. I just want to let the world know how much in awe I am of these two kids that, despite their differences and problems, they move on and love each other. No matter what. They are worst enemies. But they are also Best Friends. The kind of friend you'd walk through fire for. I'm so thankful that I get to be their mom.
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